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Welcome to Romance.ucam.org, a free chat and romance site set up specifically for members of Cambridge University. It's philanthropic: we do this purely for the satisfaction of making people happy, and we are delighted when we succeed. Of course, there is no charge, no 'data-mining', no advertising, no 'premium features', and we respect your privacy. To see what we have to offer, please take a look at some of the profiles, browse the menu on the left-hand side, and sign up below. Enjoy!

We're serious about doing the right and ethical thing, to act in the best interests of our members. For full details, please read the help text. Your questions and suggestions are always welcome.

We do not consider our membership to be an advertising demographic!

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Not a member yet? Registration is simple and free:

This will be your username on Romance.ucam.org.
Your nickname is the name that other members of the site will see and use to identify you: once chosen your nickname cannot be changed.

We recommend that you choose a pseudonym (or your firstname), but not your full real name.

Please avoid names which other members might find offensive.
Please give your university email address.
Please give a full email address at which you can be contacted. This e-mail address will not be disclosed to other members.

You must be a member of Cambridge University to join, so we ask you to use your email address that ends in '@cam.ac.uk'.
Obligatory Legal bit:
Please do actually read these; they're quite short and friendly!
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Everyone is welcome here. If the heteronormative default is inappropriate for you, please choose the nearest match, then elaborate within your profile.

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If you need help, please contact us.


Thanks RUO for some good acquaintances during my 5 years in Cambridge, keep up the good work - the site keeps getting better and better! :)

HC writes: "E of A and and I have been together 6 months now, though he's currently in America and will be for another 5 months. Also - for people wondering whether to put their photos up or not, do it! We wouldn't have met when we did if it hadn't been for our having photos up. We'd only ever chatted on here once before, for all of 10 minutes. We actually met the very next day, but it was accidental - simply recognised him in a pub, we got talking and it all went from there. He's so gorgeous I'd have probably talked to him anyway, but recognising him from here gave an instant opener! Although possibly asking someone if they're from oxfordromance isn't the coolest chat up line.... *cough*"

This is one of the many happy outcomes to which we have contributed.  :-)

This is selected, at random, from the testimonials page, and quoted verbatim.

News and updates:

17th November: TONIGHT!: Our second Speed dating event of the year. Speed dating is great fun - like musical chairs with chemistry, meet 25 different people in one evening, and if you like each other, we put you in touch afterwards. Tickets costs £5, including a glass of wine and a donation of £3 to Cambridge RAG. Places are limited, so please book in advance here.
18th October: Speed dating was a great success: we had 44 guests, resulting in 49 mutual matches. The event raised £134 for charity.
8th October: Welcome to all our new members! We hope you find love...
3rd October: Welcome back to the new term!
25th March: A German TV company would like to interview some of our members on 14th April for a documentary about how students worldwide fall in love. If anoyone would like to participate, please contact Cupid.
12th March: We really need a volunteer to help run Romance.ucam.org. Please will someone step forward to do (at least) the role of membership and publicity? Cupid needs your help: he simply cannot do this alone any more. There is quite a large budget available, whether you wish to spend it on marketing, or as payment for your time. If not you, then who?