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Welcome to OxfordRomance.org.uk, a free chat and romance site set up specifically for members of Oxford University. It's philanthropic: we do this purely for the satisfaction of making people happy, and we are delighted when we succeed. Of course, there is no charge, no 'data-mining', no advertising, no 'premium features', and we respect your privacy. To see what we have to offer, please take a look at some of the profiles, browse the menu on the left-hand side, and sign up below. Enjoy!

We're serious about doing the right and ethical thing, to act in the best interests of our members. For full details, please read the help text. Your questions and suggestions are always welcome.

We do not consider our membership to be an advertising demographic!

Join us, for free:

Not a member yet? Registration is simple and free:

This will be your username on OxfordRomance.
Your nickname is the name that other members of the site will see and use to identify you: once chosen your nickname cannot be changed.

We recommend that you choose a pseudonym (or your firstname), but not your full real name.

Please avoid names which other members might find offensive.
Please give your university email address.
Please give a full email address at which you can be contacted. This e-mail address will not be disclosed to other members.

You must be a member of Oxford University to join, so we ask you to use your email address that ends in '.ox.ac.uk'.
Obligatory Legal bit:
Please do actually read these; they're quite short and friendly!
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Everyone is welcome here. If the heteronormative default is inappropriate for you, please choose the nearest match, then elaborate within your profile.

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If you need help, please contact us.


9 leaves us, saying she found someone here...and is now in a different continent.

D and W have decided to make it official - so yes, a fine piece of oxro gossip for you I think! Seriously never thought I'd find someone who'd put up with my eccentricity, let alone love it. Thanks!

This is one of the many happy outcomes to which we have contributed.  :-)

This is selected, at random, from the testimonials page, and quoted verbatim.

News and updates:

3rd October: Welcome back to the new term!
25th March: A German TV company would like to interview some of our members on 14th April for a documentary about how students worldwide fall in love. If anoyone would like to participate, please contact Cupid.
12th March: We really need a volunteer to help run OxfordRomance. Please will someone step forward to do (at least) the role of membership and publicity? Cupid needs your help: he simply cannot do this alone any more. There is quite a large budget available, whether you wish to spend it on marketing, or as payment for your time. If not you, then who?
1st January: Happy New Year! We hope that you find love in 2015, and we'll do our best to help!
8th October 2014: The Freshers' Fair is this week (Wed-Fri). Do come to say hello. Volunteers who can help out would be extremely welcome!
7th October 2014: Welcome to a new term! And, to our new members, a particularly warm welcome: we hope we help you find love :-) If you would like to get involved with the society, and with running events, please contact OxfordRomance President, Abbas.
As it's the start of a new year, it may take a short time to get going: in particular, if you are a new member, please do take a moment to write a little about yourself... otherwise everyone waits for everyone else to make the first move!